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We are Terry & Cathye Kinkelaar. If you've followed my blog in the past, you know that Lydia, my beautiful wife of 52 years, and I made the lifestyle choice to move to Oregon in 2017. You've seen my posts about losing her in May 2020 to cancer. Although I was left alone, I am pleased to say that I have found happiness again. In April 2021, I met Cathye, who also lost her longtime husband in 2020. Well, we fell in love and were married in April 2022. So, if folks are still interested, I will continue to post here as we move forward with our lives and adventures!

Monday, February 24, 2020

Oregon Living 2020 – Blog #16 – Update on Treatments & Moving Day



Friday, Feb 21st, 2020……  Numbers are better today. Dr. says it will take several days to show improvement, given her current condition and history. But she’s now going in the right direction. You couldn’t prove it by looking at her. She sure looks miserable, but hasn’t had much sleep until today. She’s still queasy and has no appetite (this is all typical from the chemo). She is very weak from all of the water weight from the chemo meds. As I said, she is sleeping more now. We couldn’t believe it but she has over 50 lbs of fluid weight gain!  So, needless to say, she is pretty limited in movement and miserable, both physically and mentally. Doctors are saying it will go away but will just take some time. They have also told me that some people tolerate the level of chemo she received with no issues and those people can get increased doses and maybe less treatments. But, like Lydia, there are some who cannot deal with the meds and the next round will most likely be adjusted downward. Remember, Lydia has a severely comprised immune system and these drugs are hitting her like a ton of bricks and she can’t fight back at this point in time.    
   
Saturday, Feb 22nd, 2020…… Last night they added oxygen to her list of treatments.  They said it’s not critical that she have it, but it helps with her labored breathing and she doesn’t have to work so hard. The doctor said he wants to move her to the CCU. This is primarily because she is needing more constant care than they can provide. The staff assigned in her area have 4 rooms and she’s using most of their time. CCU will be better suited for her care.

They moved her this afternoon to CCU.  She’s still pretty out of it and when she’s not sleeping, she wants wet swabs in her sore and dry mouth. While I was there today, they were in there every moment tending to her and giving her new meds. They said all of her labs are still good but she’s pretty weak from everything that has hit her so far. Her kidney is struggling to do its job and they are watching that closely as a lot of the filtration work is harder to do with one functioning kidney. The polycystic kidney disease has long ago rendered her two natural kidneys useless, so she’s always been dependent on the new one for everything. But so far, so good.   
 
Sunday, Feb 23rd, 2020……  She had another tough night and is still pretty much needing the constant care. Her numbers are good but they can’t get the fluid down in her system. This would be absorbed by normal processes but she is compromised. They gave her Lasix again to help with the water retention. They also have her on a catheter to closely monitor output. The doctor told me that he is going to be giving her more blood. They do not have a kidney specialist here but he is consulting with the team in Corvallis. They may want to transfer her there. TBD.

Ok, I received a call after I left the hospital this morning. The folks in Corvallis want her to be transferred to the CCU there so they can monitor her. They are concerned that the one lonely kidney is not enough to get rid of all of the fluids she currently has. And the meds are doing the job as they hoped. The fluids are causing her stress and heavy breathing, which exacerbates her issues. The Corvallis facility can do dialysis which should help in that regard.
They called me an hour or so later and said that they had sent a non-critical ambulance and picked her up and I should allow an hour or so before heading there so they can set her up in the CCU and evaluate her. I went and picked up Penny and we left but stopped by the Lebanon hospital to pick up some personal effects missed by the ambulance crew. When we got to Corvallis, they had already determined that she needed dialysis and I signed the consent form so they could put in another shunt for that. They took her down to the dialysis center for her four-hour treatment and we left for the night. We stopped and had a meal at the Mongolian BBQ place in Corvallis and then headed back to Lebanon. We will head back tomorrow morning.    

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