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We are Terry & Cathye Kinkelaar. If you've followed my blog in the past, you know that Lydia, my beautiful wife of 52 years, and I made the lifestyle choice to move to Oregon in 2017. You've seen my posts about losing her in May 2020 to cancer. Although I was left alone, I am pleased to say that I have found happiness again. In April 2021, I met Cathye, who also lost her longtime husband in 2020. Well, we fell in love and were married in April 2022. So, if folks are still interested, I will continue to post here as we move forward with our lives and adventures!

Sunday, March 15, 2020

Oregon Living 2020 – Blog #21 – More Family and Maybe Some New Rules


 

Friday, Mar 13th, 2020……  This morning we got up and going and had our coffee. Penny came over with the Quince and walked and fed her and then left her here to go home and shower. We headed over to the hospital after breakfast. Today is dialysis day so we don’t plan to stay long on these days. They have her in the chair this time. The dialysis room is normally set up with three areas for the patient’s beds to be wheeled in to. They normally do not use a chair and they wanted to try it today. Problem was they had her scheduled for an afternoon exchange and the morning spaces were full and they didn’t want to bring in the chair so it will wait until next week. Maryanne thought she looked tired. We thought she looked ok but found out she had had an upset stomach early this morning. She left her and later she went into dialysis, this session was only 3-3 ½ hours long instead of four. She said she felt better and was ready for the Friday night tv shows!  
   
Saturday, Mar 14th, 2020……  Today was more nausea in the morning and then better in the afternoon/evening. She hasn’t been eating normal hours but manages to get the food in as she needs to. They have her on a renal diet to help keep the salt down which helps in dialysis. The doctors are in and out and the last one told us she is medically cleared to leave the hospital now. What is keeping her here is a couple of things: she needs to be able to walk a bit and get from the bed to a chair/wheelchair, and they do not yet have a nursing facility for her. She has physical therapy every day now and is slowly getting stronger. But remember, she hasn’t walked much since she had her foot issue and not at all since before chemo. So the muscles need time to get stronger.  

Sunday, Mar 15th, 2020……  Again, more nausea this morning. No dialysis on the weekends so, except for our two visits each day, she has it pretty quiet and watches tv and sleeps. She says she’s not interested in knitting or reading or much else right now and we don’t push. I took Maryanne in this morning and after a nice visit, she said her goodbyes and then we headed off to the Eugene airport so she could catch her flight home.  Cherrelyn is here but came down with something and was sick so we all agreed that it would be better if she stayed with her son this weekend and skipped her visit to see Lydia. While we were in there with her, the nurse told us they are instituting a new policy tomorrow with only the same two visitors allowed. That isn’t going to work for large families so we don’t expect it to be followed but we have to wait and see. More tomorrow…..
    

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