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We are Terry & Cathye Kinkelaar. If you've followed my blog in the past, you know that Lydia, my beautiful wife of 52 years, and I made the lifestyle choice to move to Oregon in 2017. You've seen my posts about losing her in May 2020 to cancer. Although I was left alone, I am pleased to say that I have found happiness again. In April 2021, I met Cathye, who also lost her longtime husband in 2020. Well, we fell in love and were married in April 2022. So, if folks are still interested, I will continue to post here as we move forward with our lives and adventures!

Friday, December 20, 2019

Oregon Living 2019 – Blog #117 – Annoying Lydia’s Doctor & Running Errands



Tuesday, Dec 17th, 2019…… Weather is turning colder! It was 31º when I took Rylee out at 8:00am for our walk! I fixed scrambled eggs for breakfast and we hung around the house most of the day. I did go grocery shopping again. I had to go get Kirk a gift card at Walmart so I picked up a few things. More fresh veggies and some lemon juice. They had slippers that I liked so I got those for Lydia because she has been wearing hers out. Still no resolution for the scooter order. The ortho physician’s office says they never received anything from the pharmacy, so they asked for their number to get this resolved. Kirk came by today and worked on weed control. I let butthead out for a bit then brought her in while he sprayed. He also weed whacked around the shop so I don’t have to worry about that til spring.  I gave him his Christmas card and gift card since he will be out of town next week. Even though we had no rain, it was cloudy and overcast with temps in the low 40s.
It was an ok day for Lydia. She still is having a lot of pain in her foot but being off it for the past few days has helped a lot. Tomorrow we go to her Nephrologist scheduled appointment. It’s literally just down the street from the senior center so if she feels good enough to go to bingo beforehand, we can just go from there. We’ll see. Tonight’s dinner was fish sandwiches and after that we caught up on some of our taped shows.   
         
Wednesday, Dec 18th, 2019……  We both slept well last night. Lydia does tend to wake up a few times because she has been sitting in her chair off her foot for the biggest part of the day. She only takes the prescribed drugs either early on before bed or in the middle of the night when she feels pain in the foot. They help her go back to sleep and in the morning, she was resting comfortably (aka snoring loudly!). I was up and going before the sun rose. I was showered and dressed and I had Rylee walked and fed before 7:15am. We have lots of rain forecast for the latter part of the week. But it was for the most part, dry today - until the evening. Lydia spent most of the day resting and taking phone calls from friends. She said she was doing ok and was wanting to go to bingo so we headed out about 12:30pm and got set up in the room. I brought her over an extra chair and used a stadium cushion we keep in the car to help support her foot. We played the entire time and she said she was fine. We had to take off right after though to make it to her doctor’s appointment. This was actually the first time I have ever met Dr. Leonard. I think it will be my last! I liked her and all but I think I was a little overbearing and overwhelmed her with concern about how long each evaluation has taken in the progress to get a diagnosis on her foot. Dr. Leonard is a kidney specialist and cannot speculate about what is going on in there, although I did get her to say she does not think its neuropathy because it’s only in one foot. She is certainly a talented lady and very concerned about her patients. She and Lydia communicate well and she certainly does not need me to get in the way with my badgering questions.
Once we got out of there, we detoured by KFC to pick up dinner. While I was waiting for my order, the Lebanon police came in, answering a complaint call from one of the store managers. It seems that a transient family in an old beat up rv was parked just outside their lot and as the manager drove in to work, he caught a whiff of something terrible smelling, and saw the guy dumping his raw sewage from his tank right on the ground!  We didn’t stay to see what happened but they had everyone out of the rv for questioning. I’m guessing they will be, at a minimum, cited for pollution, with a hefty fine and with a notice to appear. (Note - they were not in the space the next morning so I expect they hightailed it out of the area!)
After dinner, we settled in to watch Survivor and The Masked Singer. Turns out I had Wayne Brady but I thought he was The Rottweiler. The other two were folks I didn’t know so, we were 0 for the final three. This year, out of 16, we only got 6 right.  We watched part of the Survivor Reunion Show but quit and called it a night because it was getting late.            

Thursday, Dec 19th, 2019…… Rains have come. There are several large storms coming in over the next several days. There are flood warnings posted for the Portland area. Our forecast calls for lighter rains down here. But even though the weather wasn’t cooperating, I still had some errands I wanted to run today. Lydia was doing well and after I made us bacon and eggs for breakfast, and cleaned the kitchen, I took off. I went in to Corvallis to Bed Bath and Beyond to pick up a cutting board she wanted for the rv. Then I made the circle back via Albany where I stopped in at the jewelry dept. at Fred Meyer to check on a watch I had in for a new watchband (still in work). Then I went by Petco to pick up some treats and toys for Rylee and Quincy for Christmas. After that, I headed over to Costco and got some supplements and more Tylenol.  Last stop was back in Lebanon where I went in to Walgreens for another prescription pickup. When I got home and unloaded everything, Lydia said she wanted to go to Safeway for some light shopping before her haircut appointment. We got her a scooter and made it through the store quickly and got everything on her list and then headed over to my sister’s (who lives just a minute or so from the store) so Lydia could see her ‘Charlie Brown’ Christmas tree all lit up. We visited a few minutes then took off to Rumors where Lydia met up with Teri, who cut her hair. We were the last call for today so she went ahead and cut mine too (which doesn’t take too long!).  It was only around 3:30pm when we left there but even though it was still early, we remembered that I hadn’t gotten anything out for dinner for tonight so we stopped at Jack in the Box and got burgers to bring home. We watched the rest of the Survivor Reunion show from last night and the finale of the The Great Food Truck Race. Then I moved off to my room to work on the blog and then watch my programs until bedtime.   

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