About Us
- Terry Kinkelaar
- Lebanon, Oregon, United States
- We are Terry & Cathye Kinkelaar. If you've followed my blog in the past, you know that Lydia, my beautiful wife of 52 years, and I made the lifestyle choice to move to Oregon in 2017. You've seen my posts about losing her in May 2020 to cancer. Although I was left alone, I am pleased to say that I have found happiness again. In April 2021, I met Cathye, who also lost her longtime husband in 2020. Well, we fell in love and were married in April 2022. So, if folks are still interested, I will continue to post here as we move forward with our lives and adventures!
Thursday, July 23, 2020
Oregon Living 2020 – Blog #57 – Banks, Swimming, Buying a Tractor & a Happy Anniversary!
Monday, July 20, 2020
Oregon Living 2020 – Blog #56 – Looking for Trailer Parts & The Kids Are Here!
Friday, July 17, 2020
Oregon Living 2020 – Blog #55 – Moving In and Finishing the Blueberry Cage
Sunday, July 12th, 2020…… I wanted to pick up the grass today but wasn’t
in any hurry. Sis left to go home but stopped to pick up Cherrelyn and Larry some breakfast. Cherrelyn has texted that the movers
cancelled on her. I guess they didn’t know she was in Lebanon. They were in
Medford! Anyway, it was now up to her and Larry to unload the truck. I was
going to go over in an hour and help but when I got there, they had everything
unloaded and in the house. They did have some furniture that I would be taking
back to store at my house and left those on the truck. We worked on getting
things arranged and then they followed me back and dropped the stuff off and we
stored it in the corner of the rv garage. They left the truck and Cherrelyn drove
Larry back home. After she returned, her and Penny came back over and we took the truck
back to U-Haul and then we went out to Game Time for dinner. They dropped me
off and headed home so she could finish making her bed and getting clothes and things put
away. She also had to make sure she had the internet up and running so she
could work tomorrow. Meanwhile, I relaxed and caught up on all of my races from
yesterday and today. Mecum Auctions are now up and running again (they are in
Indy for a week) and I have all of them taping starting yesterday. I decided to let the grass dry out one more
day. Will plan that for tomorrow.
Monday, July 13th, 2020…… With Cherrelyn working from home, my sister gave her some quiet time this morning and went with me to the recycle place in Albany to help me run my bottles and cans through the machines. I picked her (and her two bags) up and we went and prepared to wait in line. They are only letting in so many people at a time into the building. But once we got there, there was no line, so we got everything run through (I made $52.30), and then stopped by Lowes on the way home so I could get a few last pieces of wood for the blueberry cage. By the time we got back, the lawn was dry enough to pick up. We made quick work of that and got everything loaded in the truck and took it to the yard waste place to dump. Easy peasy! I dropped her off at home and came back and rested for the afternoon. Later, I wanted to work on the trailer a bit. I got all of the parts together and lined up where they went. I had taken a bunch of pics so I kinda knew where all of the pieces would re-attach. Once I figured out what I needed, I went to Wilco in search of some replacement stainless steel nuts and bolts. I will wait until tomorrow to get those started. Tonight, I fixed tamales for dinner and then settled in and watched tv until bedtime
Tuesday, July 14th, 2020…… I didn’t get all of the stainless yesterday so the plan today was to go to Coastal Farm and Ranch and see what they had. I found almost all of what I needed – at least for the time being – and also got netting for the blueberry cage and brought all of that back home. I pulled the trailer into the shop and went to work on the trailer ball assembly. And then I put the rolling jack assembly together and got that on. I started replacing all of the bolts that we had previously painted with the new stainless ones. I managed to cross-thread one of them so now I need to grind it off and start again! What a waste of a fastener! I went off to Ace Hardware and found some more of the stainless that I needed. On the way I stopped off at the local lawnmower supply company in town and looked at the zero-turn mower that I want. I missed the $100.00 off sale and asked if they would honor it now. The owners were not in and the guys there couldn’t make that happen so I will go back next week and check again. I got back home and started in doing some cleaning in the house. I vacuumed and dusted and straightened up everything because Aimee was coming by for a visit today. She stayed for a couple of hours and we had a nice talk. She was working for our friends, Paul and Alice, to maybe find them a home in the area, but they chose something in Dallas (just east of Salem). She tells me they bought an owner-owned house under construction and it won’t be done until November. Dallas is not that far away so it will be nice when they get in and settled and we can go back and forth for visits. It was nice to see Aimee again. I went back to work on the trailer but had to take a break and stop to let Rylee play in the pool and chase the water hose for a while. It was a nice break because it’s been hot up here this week. 85º today and then a few cooler days with sprinkles. But in the 90’s next week!
Wednesday, July 15th, 2020…… I got up and walked Rylee and fed her, then made scrambled eggs and sausage for breakfast. Then I headed out to Walmart to stock up on groceries and sodas. I always tell the landscape guys to help themselves to the drinks in the fridge in the garage and that supply needed to be restocked. After I got everything home and put away, I went out to work on the blueberry cage.
Nothing much on the calendar today. I did make a call to the credit union and they are going to email me a form for my account changes. I stopped by the DMV to turn in Lydia’s handicap placard and her license. They stopped me outside because everything now is by appointment only. But they took the placard and said they were already notified by the state and the license info is in the system and I could just shred that now.
Thursday, July 16th, 2020…… I was up early and showered and walked and fed Rylee. Sis came by and brought Quincy to run and after that we got the net up and stapled all around the posts so the blueberries are now caged up and are now safe from the deer (and hopefully from the birds too).
We have already made the first pick off the bushes and got about 50% of them. Some still need a few more days. Penny had taken a bunch of blueberries home and made a “crockpot cobbler”, which came from Lydia’s recipes. She brought some of it over yesterday and it’s on my menu for tonight! After getting the cage done, we cleaned up and headed off to Kevin’s for breakfast. After that, we came home and she got Quincy and left. I rested for a bit and played with the butthead. Still working on the trailer. I find that every time I want to put a part on, I need to get another fastener. So, I took off yet again and went to Wilco and got a few more items. I tried to print out he credit union forms on the printer, but I needed ink cartridges so I will need to go to Walmart tomorrow for those.
Dinners
are not memorable so I struggle to remember what I had last night! Tonight, I wasn’t hungry so I had swiss cheese
and pepperoni on crackers. I know but I got to eat the cobbler for dessert! I
must say it was tasty but I think I prefer the old-fashioned baked cobblers
over the crockpot type. I finished up watching my Mecum Auctions until bedtime.
Sunday, July 12, 2020
Oregon Living 2020 – Blog #54 – Neighbor’s Yard Sale, Painting, Mowing, & Birthday and Anniversary Wishes!
Tuesday, July 7, 2020
Oregon Living 2020 – Blog #53 – Celebrating the 4th & Working on the Blueberry Cage
Saturday, July 4th, 2020…… Happy 4th of July! Last night I had Quincy here again
because Penny’s neighbor told us he was going to shoot off some of his
fireworks last night. It was ok at my house until about 10:00pm (that’s when it
gets dark up here), but a half hour later we heard some pretty loud bangs. Both
Q and R were on the bed, panting, and nervous. It took us all a long time to
settle down but we managed a good night’s sleep anyway. I expect tonight will
be more of the same…
I slept in
a bit and got up and got going with the dogs and then breakfast for me. I don’t
have any chores planned for today. The
girls will be coming over with ribs for me to bbq. I wrapped up some potatoes
to go with them. I spent most of the day
watching the two races today - Indy Cars and Nascar – both from Indianapolis
Speedway. The cup cars race there tomorrow too.
We got the
ribs on and cooking and relaxed and drank some beer and wine while that was
going on. Dinner was really good. After searing, they needed to cook on
indirect heat for 1-
1 ½ hours.
I didn’t really think about this and set the timer for 1 ½ hours. Next time I
will cut back on the cooking time on the ribs to just 1 hour. They were still
delicious.
After a
nice meal and some time to rest after doing all of the dishes, the girls left
for home. They were expecting a rip-roaring street scene at home. And they got
it!!! They said it was nuts! There were
folks out everywhere and some even shot off the large super loud show-type
aerial fireworks. I can’t imagine how much money they spent. But Quincy was
over here and drugged up so she barely heard the Cheadle Lake fireworks show.
But Rylee and I did. It started about 10:00pm and lasted 31 minutes but once
that was over, the locals started in and we had to wait until around 11:00pm
before things quieted down. I ended up with both dogs on the bed until Rylee
got too hot and moved off to her bed by the door. Through all of that, I still
slept well.
Sunday, July 5th, 2020…… I slept in and then got up and showered and dressed then took the dogs out for their walk in the yard/field. Last night, the younger girls next door had been out with their dad and some friends in the cul-de-sac shooting off small fireworks. They didn’t start any fires and left no remnants. Yaay! I spent the day relaxing and watching tv. Penny and Jody stopped by and picked up Quincy. They said her neighborhood is still littered with firework trash, left out on the streets. It’s a nice neighborhood so that is surprising to me!
Today, the
girls decided to have a seafood dinner at their house, so they took the 4
lobsters I had back home with them. They will be cooking them and would add
them to the scallops they already have. Later, Jody worked on the twice-cooked
potatoes and sis made veggies. It was a really good meal!
I had brought Rylee over and she and Quincy hung out in the yard and we joined them outside after dinner. After a while, I brought butthead back home and we settled in for the night and I watched my taped Nascar race. While watching tv, I also spent some time working some more on my scanning project. Probably just less than two thirds done now!
Monday, July 6th, 2020…… Not much on the agenda today. I left a message with Lydia’s contact/friend at our credit union in Calif. I need to work on changing out that account in regards to beneficiary/account owner changes. But while I was waiting for her call back, I went out to the shop and finally did that last coat on the last three trailer parts. While those parts were drying, I worked on the other parts and removed all of the painter’s tape on all of the rollers and then started to clean up the nuts and bolts for reassembly. But instead, I think I am going to take those to Lowes or Wilco, and swap them all out for stainless steel hardware, which will look better and will not rust. Before I was done and ready to come in and rest for a bit, I gathered up all of the parts and put them on the table for assembly later. It was then that I found out that I have not yet addressed the boat winch. It was in the corner and I had missed it. It is pretty rusty and will need some tlc before I can paint it. Because of the gears, I think I will just spray paint it the same navy blue as the fenders and then lube the moving parts.
I heated
up the ribs and the green beans for dinner. Quick and easy and very tasty! Then
it was a little more photo scanning and logging before relaxing and watching tv
until bedtime.
Tuesday, July 7th, 2020…… The plan this morning was in my head. I walked and fed butthead, had breakfast and then headed out. I have a Lowes gift card (birthday gift from the Cali kids) and I needed some lumber to repair my blueberry cage, so this was a good day to go do that. I got what I hope is enough for everything plus a couple of 2x4s for another project and tied it all down in the truck and headed home. It was a nice day so I immediately went to work out there. I got about ½ done and then Rylee and I came in to take a break. Kirk and his guys showed up and I gave them their assignments for the day. Today Carter was back on the flowerbeds around the house and Caleb was finishing the other side of the driveway from last week. I rested and took a couple of calls and then went back out and finished up the back side of the cage. I still need to do the ends and then stiffen up the whole thing with braces in several areas throughout the center before I can get a net over it all. I have to hurry, though because the blueberries are starting to ripen and the birds and the deer will pick them clean!
We are
taking Jody to the Eugene airport in my car in the morning so I took it down to
the carwash and then stopped for dinner on the way home. Where to go….? I saw that Stick a Pork In It was working
their food truck/cart so I stopped there and got the Cuban stuffed mashed potato
balls. I liked them so I got three. But this time I think they cooked them a
bit too much and they were not as flavorful as they could have been. But I still liked them. After that, I took
Rylee out to play in the grass. She was really interested in the activity at
the neighbors to the southwest of us. That is, out in the ‘west 40’ just south
of the property line. Their address is actually on So. Main. Anyway, I had noticed on Zillow that that
house was for sale (already with an accepted offer with contingencies) and was
curious. I saw it is way bigger (4,200 sq. ft.) than mine (2,500 sq. ft.) -
this is actually a three-story counting a walkout basement – but the price was
less than what Zillow shows mine is worth right now. That makes me happy! Rylee can hear some kids playing in that yard
but I’m not sure if they are there with a work crew just visiting or what. Later,
the mystery was solved when my sister sent me an email notice about an estate
sale starting on Thursday, which is at that address! So, I’m guessing that the kids must be there
while the adults from the estate company are setting things up. After tiring monkey butt out, we closed up the
garages and came back in the house and settled in and relaxed and I watched tv until
we called it a night.
Saturday, July 4, 2020
Oregon Living 2020 – Blog #52 – Yard Sales and Projects Around the House
Wednesday, July 1st, 2020…… Today I had some more paperwork to take care
of. Plus, I had to call my bank and set up an appointment to go there and take
care of the transition of my account. But first I headed out and loaded up my truck
with 6 tables and took them over to my sister’s house for her yard sale. It’s
tomorrow so they want to load up the tables in the garage so they are ready to be carried outside tomorrow morning. I left there and we met up at The Apple Tree for
breakfast. We had to wear our masks until we got seated. Not too bad.
I came
home after that and called Prudential because I had two investment accounts
there that needed to have the beneficiaries changed. I also needed to do the
same for our long-time Prudential insurance policies – one gets paid out to me and the other gets a
beneficiary change. They were able to email me the requisite paperwork which I
printed, completed, signed, copied and then mailed out today. I keep thinking of more places where transition paperwork needs to be completed and I need to get those done asap. Most are straightforward and none are hard but just time
consuming!!!
Penny and
Jody came over later in the day and dropped off Quincy for a sleepover and a
play day tomorrow. I volunteered to bring McDonalds breakfast over in the morning
for the ‘sales’ team at the yard sale so I got their orders before they went
home.
Thursday, July 2nd, 2020…… I got up this morning only to find Quincy cuddled up to my backside. Rylee was asleep on her bed on the floor next to me. I got showered and dressed and then got them out for their walk/run and then fed them breakfast. Then I left to go hit McDonalds to get breakfast for everyone. I got there and dropped off the food and then parked the truck down the street. I hung around and watched folks come and go this morning.
(l to r - Maraglee, Jody, and Penny) They all did a great job getting the stuff put out
Being a Thursday, they got the retired ladies and gentlemen and those home with their kids today. It was going well and a lot of stuff went early. I left and came home to work on my trailer painting project. But first I moved the cars out of the (house) garage and used my leaf blower to clean out all of the debris and leaves. I already have most of the photo bins back up on the cabinets but I do want to rearrange everything in there in the near future and cleaning the areas will help with that. I finished all of the first-coat painting on all of the smaller trailer parts. I will get a second coat on them later today or tomorrow and then will only have the trailer to do. Next up was insurance quotes. I gathered my vehicle info and called AARP (Hartford) to get a quote from them. But before that, I called Travelers/AAA back and spoke with someone new. I told them about my bad experience and that I was waiting to hear back from Lori for a week. Tammy got to work and called me back 45 minutes later and said she had the underwriter revisit my policy and they reduced it back to last year’s rate, with no increase. I am ok with that because this year it went up even with Lydia on the policy plus they said that my credit score had all to do with the rating and since I am in the process of paying off our credit card which, along with helping me with monthly payments and saving that interest, will also change my credit score, thus lowering the auto policy rate even more. Car insurance - go figure!
I needed
to cut short that call and head over to Corvallis to make my bank appointment to provide them a
death certificate (copy) in order to change that account. I also asked about
either adding the boys as beneficiaries with access after providing a proof of
death (POD) document vs adding one or both of them to my account. Either works but logistics play a factor so I
will have to figure that one out. I also heard back from Ed and Glover in Wisconsin that
they received the box of photos today, safe and sound. I always worry. Ed gave me his outline on what he plans to do
when he sorts through them. I knew he was the right person to send them
too! They have many hours ahead of them!
I got back
home and fed the dogs their dinner and then let them out to play a bit, then fixed myself some
pork tamales that I had taken out from the freezer. These are the ones we got
from our church around Christmas time and then froze. Quick and easy and yummy! And I’m making progress on the frozen food!
After
dinner, I had some time and went back out and did some touch-up painting on the
trailer parts and got a second coat on almost everything in the shop. I have
the back side on two or three items still to do and that will be done. All that’s left after that is the trailer
itself. Maybe tomorrow.
I heard
from Stan (Lydia’s brother in Bakersfield). He said Joy is now getting a
hospice nurse on call 24/7 but who comes in every other day to just sit and
visit with Joy. He was worried when he heard the word hospice but was ok when
they explained to him that she wasn’t at any risk. They are there right now more for comfort than anything else simply because he can't get in to visit her right now.. She seems to be calming down a little as she
gets used to her new place. Stan is also able to relax and says he’s starting
to get used to life at home by himself now. Still not easy. He also said there is no word yet on the
cause of death of his daughter in Prescott. Autopsy is still pending and they
say it could take several weeks. His granddaughter told him that the service
for her mom was very nice.
Friday, July 3rd, 2020…… I got up around 6:00am and got showered and took the dogs out and got them pooped and pooped out and then fed. Once that was done, I headed back over to the yard sale for a few minutes to drop off another box of stuff I found in the garage. Then I left and met Teri at The Apple Tree for breakfast. It was nice to get out of the house and enjoy a nice meal and good conversation with a welcome friend. After we ate, she followed me back to the yard sale and visited for a bit there before she left and went on to work. They have really done well with the sale. There were a total of 5 families that brought stuff over and all of us sold quite a bit of what we brought. The girls have put a lot of effort into pricing and arranging and staging things and the crowds were pretty constant the times I was there. I really do appreciate all the effort they made in keeping all of the monies straight. I came home and worked on some things in the house garage. I pulled out both cars and put up the new lights that came today. These just screw in to the fixture like a regular light bulb, but they put out a LOT of led light!
It doesn't really show the difference in these photos but this is a big improvement from just the two bulbs. I found them online for a little over twenty bucks for two including free shipping! I also decided to move my card table chairs up on the wall with bicycle hangers and got that little project completed. The more stuff off of the floor, the easier to keep clean! I am still going to do a couple more things out there in the near future to help remove some of the clutter.
I got the requested check from my investment plan today and immediately took it to the bank to pay off the credit card. It has been way too long to have this card balance hanging over our heads so it was a great relief to finally pay it off. No more monthly payments and no more interest!
I stopped
by the yard sale and picked up my tables and came home to rest. Later, I went
out to Jack in the Box and used a coupon and got dinner for tonight and lunch
for tomorrow. I also tried their new tiny tacos – 15 for $3.00 - pretty tasty
and something I will get again. Once I finished dinner and fed the dogs, and
let them out to run a bit, I settled in for the night and watched tv until
bedtime.






























