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We are Terry & Cathye Kinkelaar. If you've followed my blog in the past, you know that Lydia, my beautiful wife of 52 years, and I made the lifestyle choice to move to Oregon in 2017. You've seen my posts about losing her in May 2020 to cancer. Although I was left alone, I am pleased to say that I have found happiness again. In April 2021, I met Cathye, who also lost her longtime husband in 2020. Well, we fell in love and were married in April 2022. So, if folks are still interested, I will continue to post here as we move forward with our lives and adventures!

Friday, October 13, 2017

Oregon Living 2017 – Blog #68 – A Better Day and Then Trip Plans and a Party!

 

Thursday, October 12th, 2017…...  Health update – my back feels a little better today.  Not nearly back to normal yet so I am still taking muscle relaxers. And I’m not doing any work around the house as yet but walking better than yesterday with less pain.  Lydia is still hurting from her shingles but she says each day is better.  We’ve both had shingles before and we know it’s a slow process before the pain goes away.  She has moments where she needs Tylenol.  So we’re a couple of sickies this week.  Both of us have doctor’s appointments on Monday.  Hopefully we will get back in good health soon.

We had another appointment today with yet another contractor for a bid on the rv garage.  This guy came as a reference from my metal welding shop guy.  He and his wife have been contractors in the business for many years.  He started out working for his father over 40 years ago.  He and his wife work as a team and bring in help with heavy work plus they sub out specialty work like electrical and such.  I gave him all of the details and they asked many good questions and before they left gave me a very promising rough estimate. So, depending on his final number (coming in the next few days) they are in the running.  Interesting sidenote – as they finished and got ready to leave they went back to their truck only to find that he left his keys in the ignition and she left her purse on the floor and bumped the lock button on the door.  So they were locked out!  I first cut a coathanger and then a heavier metal rod which he shaped into a hook and eventually taped it to a broomstick and got the keys out of the ignition and hooked them.  His wife and Lydia sat in the warm house together while we worked for 40 minutes out in the rain. Lots of fun!  While we were working out there, Tina dropped off our mail, which included Ethyl! For those who don’t know, Fred and Ethyl were the Rustler mascots for the last 4-5 years.  The Club is downsizing and cleaning up things in storage so we were asked if we wanted one of them and Ethyl made it up here today.  Here is the text of the letter that accompanied her:  Dear Terry & Lydia, Fred and Ethyl are getting a divorce.  Fred wants to continue to live in the city but Ethyl wants to move to a ranch. We suggested that living on your acreage would be best for her.  She will love the West 40!   Plus, this way she will be halfway across the country from Fred (he’s moving to Ohio) and there will be no more fighting. Take care of her.  Best wishes, Bill & Treasa – Official facilitators of the divorce.
We are happy to get her and will be sure to give her a good home and plenty of feed and will let her have free run of the property.  Maybe she will scare away the field mice!  Thanks for sending her to us. Please tell Fred we are sorry and surprised – they seemed like such a happy couple! Hope he likes his new life in Springboro!   



Later, we went out to Carl’s Jr. for a quick and easy dinner and then came back to watch tv (and feed Ethyl).  

Friday, October 13th, 2017…...  We got a call from Jeff last night.  He’s found out he needs outpatient surgery (for varicose vein removal) and wants us to come be with him.  We talked about it and I decided that even though his surgery is in 13 days, I shouldn’t try to travel 7+hours on a plane with my back out. It may be better then but it’s ok if just she goes.  We called them back and Lydia said she will go alone and he was ok with that.   So, after the call, we went online and looked at our options. Turns out that with the high prices on flights back there, it is best that only one of us go anyway. We also discovered that flying from Portland (with one stop in Houston) into Ft Myers, FL was way cheaper and faster than going via Eugene.  Flights from Eugene went through 2-4 stops (and took 11 hours or more!) plus they all cost much more. So she booked through Portland.  We also chose to add flight cancellation insurance just in case.  Since it was late she sent them a text with her flight info.  She’ll talk more with them later today. We didn’t do too much today.  We went to breakfast at Kevin’s and then came home and did odds and ends around the house.  Both of us went to our medication docs in our computers and updated our meds.  This time we added the supplements we take in case the doctor wants to know for interaction effects.  That done, it was time to go to our realtor’s office party.  Penny came over and Jeff called and we talked to him for a while then we headed off to Harbor Freight for some parking lot sale items and then to a place called Wheeler Dealers where I had seen carpet runners for our home.  We bought two and a wheelbarrow tire and then went to the ReMax party. Aimee’s team puts this party together at this time of year with games for the kids and fall photo ops for families and such.  They served desserts which we saved for after dinner plus gave us a free pumpkin.  It was a really nice setup and a lot of fun! We stayed only a short time and then went next door to Sweet Waters Family Restaurant for dinner, which was excellent!  We came home and put the rugs down





and then kicked back and relaxed for the evening. 

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